Again, in the attempt to be a comforter, we rely much too often on Biblical and earthly cliché's or anecdotes such as;

"All things work together for the good"

"They're in a better place"

"They're in Heaven, you'll see them again someday"

These sayings and coined phrases may sound appropriate if you have nothing else to say, but when the grieving heart is searching for comfort, cliché's should be kept for someone else far removed.